Alright, listen up. I’m only gonna say this once.

Virginity is EXACTLY what you make it.

If it’s important to you, it’s important.

If it’s not important to you, it’s not important.

If it’s physical to you, it’s physical.

If it’s emotional to you, it’s emotional.

Because it’s your goddamn body and your goddamn life and nobody can tell you what is or isn’t important to you. So if you’re a virgin, that’s awesome. If you’re not, that’s also awesome. If you define virginity as vaginal sex, or anal sex, or oral sex, or kissing, or whatever, that’s awesome. If you think virginity is a stupid concept, that’s awesome. Because virginity is about how YOU think about YOUR body and YOUR relationship with it and with other people.

So stop slut-shaming and stop talking about what age you “should” lose it and stop talking about how people who have lost it are bad and people who haven’t lost it are bad and how people who save it or don’t save it for marriage are better. As long as you are happy and healthy and comfortable with YOUR decisions about YOUR OWN BODY, well that’s fucking great, and anyone who can say that deserves your respect.